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Private Consulting & personal Development

with kellē Sauer

For the woman who is reimagining her narrative. Joining curiosity with intention to reconsider what "showing up" looks like to you. 

IT"S NOT THE ROOM YOU'RE IN.
IT'S HOW YOU CHOOSE TO BE IN IT.

Generative conversations

Think differently. ARrive lightly.

90-minute Private online consultation with 1-week voice-messaging connection

Identity-focused questions, personal observations, & real-time engagement

Re-thinking, Re-Structuring, RE-energizing, with curiosity

These 1:1 conversations with C'est Mon Feu founder Kellē Sauer are meant to get you out of what everybody else thinks and back into your own unique perspective. We want to free you up to show up your way, without competing with others' ideals, feeling trapped by industry standards, or limiting yourself with imposter syndrome. We'll spend 90 minutes on Zoom and continue the conversation with 5 asynchronous, responsive development prompts on Voxer to follow up.

This is a space where you'll be invited to tell your story, think out loud, and remember what it feels like to breathe your fire.

This is not a workshop. It's a way in. You'll be creating tangible intentions for showing up and still feeling like you're still wearing your own skin.

You can expect to move what feels stagnant, and change course back toward what lights you up, no matter what conversation you choose.

We start with you. Who you are, how you want to see yourself showing up, and what's got you curious about the conversation you've chosen. From there, we follow curiosity where it takes us, structured gently so we stay on topic. Our goal is to identify (and inspire) "what you would do" as we consider how you want to show up with your people going forward.

the results

We want to get you back into your own head, so you can reimagine your own narrative without worrying about anybody else's ideals. We are here to affirm your desire and direction, and catalyze your energy from boredom and frustration to genuine reconnection to what you love, wherever you go from our conversation.

the conversation

"Curiosity killed the cat," Fesago remarked, his dark eyes unreadable.
Aly rolled her eyes. Why did everyone say that to her? "People always forget the rest of the saying," she complained. "And satisfaction brought it back." [Tamora Pierce]

Thinking differently shouldn't be an impossibility, not when you're already the only woman you know who thinks like you. You've built so much, you have so many successes to celebrate, you know the story—you wrote the story. But there's this restlessness rising into your routines, a niggling, mischievous curiosity suggesting there is more to you than you've been letting yourself be. You look fine to everybody else, but you know your passion is a performance, and things that used to inspire you are running on auto-pilot.

You know from experience that the restlessness is pointing you to a new perspective. "Default" is not your default. The rooms are too familiar, and you don't quite fit them anymore. You were never going to settle here. It's supposed to feel like fire.

What if. (That's always the question, isn't it? It's the one that started all this. And you know it's the one that's going to get you back to yourself too.) What if curiosity is the exact thing you need to reshape your routines and refresh your passion? What if thinking differently lets you arrive lightly wherever you want to go next? What if it's time for impossibilities?

Connected humans don't stop with the first story we told about ourselves. If you're audacious enough to be changing that story, These conversations with C'EST MON FEU founder Kellē Sauer are made  for YOU. Choose one (or choose all of them), and Get comfortable with curiosity.

Audacious women don't measure themselves by others' ideals.  TheY're just becoming wildly comfortable with curiosity.

Welcome to

fire-brand

Audacity requires a firm belief in what you're here for.
Authority asks for radical self-acceptance.
Approachability means that you show up fully present.

These three factors add up to a powerful identity that blows people away—and not always in the way you want to. C'est Mon Feu founder Kellē Sauer knows this better than most people, and she's ready to share about the ways her inner dragon breathed a little too much fire before becoming the staunch protector of her her intentions as it is today. 

and more... 

Audacity, authority, and a side of approachability

—How do you show up in a world where it feels like everybody is doing you better than you? (Actually, they're not.)

—How do you articulate your passion without scaring yourself (and your people) away? (This one's an energy question, and it's FUNNNN...)

—How do you create boundaries that let you breathe your fire without burning out? (SPOILER: The boundaries are not what you'd expect!)

How to fall in love with the dragon in you: a conversation about boundaries.

This conversation explores questions like:

fourth wall

Different personalities connect differently, but when you're slogging through "industry-standard," it can seem like there is only one *right* way to show up—and it's often the opposite of you. You end up giving the performance of your life every single time you meet your people, and you're about to burn everything down and chase every one away, just to get a break.

C'est Mon Feu founder Kellē Sauer is an AUDHD introverted artist who has spent a lot of time building systems for showing up authentically, often awkwardly exploring differences between performance and persona. Now, she's offering to share how she learned she could show up as herself in any context.

 

on personality, performance, and persona

Reclaiming the you that meets your people: a conversation about authenticity

and more...

—I'm a whole person, not just my dream-come true. Is there room for the rest of me? (PREVIEW: What if your fire is for you too?)

—How do I show up for  necessary things that require me to put on a show? (There might be a side of you that was made for exactly those things...)

—When is it safe to speak my truth when I want to connect with my people? (ohhh, this is one answer we absolutely love. You get to be SO real.)

This conversation explores questions like:

happy place

In 2020, C'est Mon Feu founder Kellē Sauer changed her entire approach to the app that let her speak in pictures after the OG blogging culture faded out, unfollowing hundreds of accounts, and curating a photostream that offered real connection and content she wanted to see every time she opened the app.

Ignoring the algorithm and following her own strategy, she created a method to maintain clean energy for her IG experience, leave off the doom-scrolling, and welcome a consistent flow of her favorite inspiration through her stream. 

While she'd never teach a class about selling successfully on Instagram, she's a bit of an evangelist for potential connection between humans there, and she's here for conversation about how you can create it.

inspiration, curation, and your favorite things

You are not an algorithm: a conversation about Instagram

BONUS: This 90 minutes will include some hands-on engagement with your own IG, as well as some proven ideas for practicing your portfolio in this [relatively safe] IG space.

—how can instagram ever be a happy place to hang out, with bots and ads everywhere? (if you ever found joy there, you can find it again.)

—Are there real life social rules that work differently on social media? (We're pretty sure that follow-for-follow is nonsense, btw.)

—How do you maintain an aesthetic that you love on an app that pushes an algorithm? (This might be a tips-and-tools answer. Snicker.)

This conversation explores questions like:

We designed Enter the Chat for the fire-breathing woman who is reimagining her narrative about... well, everything, because she knows she's definitely not. done. yet. 

The woman who wants to welcome more curiosity

There's no surer cure for your exhaustion and creative block than some really good questions and a little bit of wondering. You've been looking for a conversation that will spark your inspiration.

The woman who breaks through by thinking out loud

Your best ideas hit you when you can hear your own voice, or when somebody listening echoes your brilliance back to you. You've been waiting for the conversation that will get the thoughts out in the open.

The woman who likes her story better IRL than in her head.

The woman who knows that Movement is better than Freeze.

Your dreams are for dreaming, but inspiration is made for reality, and you're not into spinning thoughts and untried ideas. You've been trying for a tangible perspective change to remind you of what you KNOW about you.

When it comes to showing up, you have seen that moving anything at all moves energy everywhere else. You've been contemplating your next move, just so you can feel your fire again.

fire-brand

90-minute 1:1 identity-focused consulting intensive

1 week asynchronous private Voxer connection 

5 personalized follow-up conversation + development prompts

One payment of $700 $490 USD

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90-minute 1:1 identity-focused consulting intensive

1 week asynchronous private Voxer connection 

5 personalized follow-up conversation + development prompts

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